HOW LONG TILL A/P CAME BACK TO YOU?

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Registered: 06-27-2008
HOW LONG TILL A/P CAME BACK TO YOU?
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Sat, 02-14-2009 - 2:35pm
I am curious for those of you who have had that on-again/off-again affair.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2009
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 3:11pm

I have been lurking here for a while but have never posted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 3:56pm
Wow i wish i was ss strong as you to stay away from my ap like that. On average we talk or email about once to twice a week. I did email him today to wish him happy valentines day and to tell him i fixed the problem with my pc. I dont expect to hear from him. Saturdays is a day he spends teaching class and his older son helps. The longest in 2 years we have gone nc was 24 days then 14 last weekk because of illness we went 6.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 3:57pm

With first AP we had a semi D-day and went almost 3 months with NC.


With this AP, it was less than

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2009
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 8:25pm
I am not so strong.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2008
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 8:32pm
Well, 5 times we started over....the last time he came back to me completely on his own. The other times I initiated the conversations that led to us getting back together. But, when does it end? How long do I or his wife put up with it? I guess this time I thought things were different because that was the longest we had gone with no contact and the fact that he came to me made me think it would last...but now, it's been 2 days since I've heard from him. According to his text Thursday morning, he was on his way out of town with his wife because a relative had died and when I asked if they were back together, he told me no, but she was going with him....guess it's not too hard to read between the lines on that one, huh?
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Registered: 12-24-2008
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 8:40pm
Ooops,guess I never really answered the question, did I?? My bad....okay, this is all within a one year time frame...1st time he stayed away for about a week, the 2nd time was 2 weeks, the third time was about a month, the fourth time was 3 months...he moved out of his house again for a 5th time last Friday and as of Wednesday night, he has not contacted me other than the text Thursday morning about going out of town, so as far as I'm concerned, he is back with her even though he said he wasnt SO, here we go NC again....
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 11:14pm
that's like most affairs. so much at stake and risk being caught.