How to make most of time together?
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| Tue, 11-18-2008 - 2:28pm |
Okay, so I'm like everyone else on here. In a somewhat complicated relationship that I probably should best not be in but hey, how can you give it up. Anyway, without going into too many details, let me just say he's not married and neither am I. He is engaged though and she just moved in with him. Because of some strange circumstances, he was at the point a couple months ago of trying to break it off with her to be with me but she freaked out something terrible. She doesn't know about us though which he (not I) wants to keep that way. His reasoning being that he wants their relationship to fail because he failed at it, not because of me and him. Weird, I know. If there is a me and him, knowing what I do of her, their relationship will eventually fail. So, actually I don't think my title is right because we do make the most of our time together, alone and with the kids that are involved. I don't know that I want to sabotage their relationship (okay, yes, I do but won't cause I'm not like that). So, maybe my question is, as much time as he spends with me, and she knows how much time he and are together, and their relationship is still pretty fragile, anyone care to take a guess at how their relationship might go? As much lying (God, I hate that we do so much of that) that he has to do to her and his family even, he's eventually got to break. Or is there a man out there that can hide everything so well from everyone that they have 2 long term relationships going without losing one? I don't think what I'm asking makes any sense but if anyone has any insight into something like this, please help. I could give more information through email, not on the board though, if anyone is interested. I think I need to talk to someone anyway.
I do get to see him tonight and I can't wait. Even though I get to see him everyday. This is just a little longer.
Need to spill.
| Wed, 11-19-2008 - 11:33am |
