how many AP's is too many ?

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Registered: 11-06-2009
how many AP's is too many ?
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Sat, 08-28-2010 - 6:01pm

How many AP's

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 12:02am

Oh boy!

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 1:36am
each primary relationship is so very different, and then each AP person we find provides us with a different experience. i wouldn't worry so much about u being #5. maybe it's taken her that long to figure out what she wants and doesn't want, and that has lead her to you: what she wants now. it's a good place to be in, to know what you want and what u don't want.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 12-18-2008
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 7:41am

I thought long and hard about this one, went away and came back, realized I am self conscious about posting, but it is what it is so here goes. I've had 3 AP at one time for a long stretch, right now I have 2 going. Have to think long and hard about the total but I do know it's in the low double digits since HS, which was when I first cheated.

It is what it is.

-jana

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 8:51am

I have had 3 AP's but over a period of 15 years and "one at a time". I've been involved with my OM right now for 11 years. The other two were fairly long term (well, for an A), about 1½ years each.

It seems that after my first A, I just felt like I had to have two relationships - my H and someone else. Something about me likes and yearns for another life, and another relationship.

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