How many are both OW and BS?
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How many are both OW and BS?
| Fri, 05-08-2009 - 1:08pm |
we had a cl once who was both an OW and a BS. just curious how many others are around.
Mrs.
| Fri, 05-08-2009 - 1:08pm |
we had a cl once who was both an OW and a BS. just curious how many others are around.
Mrs.
I was the
Edited 10/8/2009 8:16 pm ET by goblinqueen79
I think there is a starting point for every OW, and somewhere along that line is hurt. I think my distrust of men started with my childhood. I saw my mother get cheated on...so my natural reaction was no man will ever do that to me. I was like I will never let anyone get that close to my heart. I loved my husband, but I didn't want to set myself up to be hurt. So, when I met the OM that was my way of protecting myself but I loved my husband so much I agreed to work on my marriage and then when he returned to the states that was when he broke the news to me about the OW.
So, I was glad in a way that I did cheat because if I hadn't..... it would have made what he did that much more harder for me to forgive.
However......part of me wonders what I would have done if he would have told me about the other woman before he left. Would I have ended my marriage and been with the other guy.....I guess I will never know.
I am both and not proud of it.