How many long lost APs?

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Registered: 05-19-2010
How many long lost APs?
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Tue, 08-24-2010 - 2:55pm

Recently I have reading lots of posts where the AP is either a friend from the past ( 15-20 years) or long lost love ( 15-20 years).My AP is someone who lives in the same neighborhood and we got involved while meeting for the community meetings.

So my question is,how many of you have an AP who is a flash from the past? ( Thanks to FB !)

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 3:18pm

my AP and i went to school together and were involved during my senior year of high school.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 4:02pm

just an interesting article i saw a while ago...


http://www.jannagraber.com/firstlove.htm

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Registered: 04-27-2009
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 5:37pm

I first met AP 42 years ago

katuk
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 7:53pm

Obviously you know me ;)


We met when we were 15, were friends for a few years, dated our first year in college, broke up but remained friends, then lost touch for several years until last fall.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 08-17-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 10:09pm
my AP lived in the dorms with me 15 yrs ago. we started a purely physical booty call thing. we were always cordial when we saw each other in passing and every once in a while my phone would ring, he would be at my door and leave afterwards. It was a time just before i graduated and i wasnt looking for a relationship. fast forward to a yr ago....i searched his name and sent a msg. now mind you, we never had any real conversations in college. everything was superficial and even though i wanted more back then, he wasnt willing to give anymore than i received from him. I was expecting to hear the same attitude and response from him as i did in college. Instead, i get a very warm email back, we chat, we exchange pics. we continue to chat and email. we talk about old days.
We even had a chance to iron out some misunderstandings from the past. eventually we got to know each other on a more intimate level. I was surprised by his sense of humor and views on life. He in turn was suprised by the same in me. It was almost as if we both were thinking "wow, how come we didnt know this years ago?"
Both of us are married. He lives out of state. We have met up a few times already. The sex we had in college was "yawn boring" in comparison to what we have now....sex now is AMAZING and BREATHTAKING.and now we talk just about everyday. i do believe we will remain friends even after teh affair is over.