How much pain am I in for?

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Registered: 02-23-2009
How much pain am I in for?
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 1:42pm

I've posted here before and I've been back and forth on this issue.

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Registered: 08-13-2009
Mon, 08-17-2009 - 12:21pm
I've read several of these replies and one thing that keeps running through my head is the comment, "if your spouse truly had your heart you wouldn't think about having an A". That's what puzzles me. I absolutely, without doubt love my H. I always will...I'm not leaving him. He's the man I want to grow old with . BUT I am in an A and it's soooo hard to get out. Am I just one of those women who can't be happy with one man???? My AP lives 2 houses down and I see him all the time because our families are friends. How do I put an end to this after we both have said I love you. Neither one of us has any intention of leaving our spouses. We both have young children too that play together. If I end this I still have to see him. How do I become that STRONG woman that can look at him without wanting to wrap my arms around him and tell him how much I love him??? I'm such a mess.

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