How often do you and AP....?

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How often do you and AP....?
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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 4:44am

Email each other?


Text/Call each other?


See each other?


Have sex?


Has this been the pattern

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Registered: 06-27-2010
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 6:09am

We've only been together a month, but so far, out pattern is:


Email each other?


We mainly IM on yahoo, which we do daily.

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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 6:24am
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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 8:21am

Email each other:

TanZa2920
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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 9:13am
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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 9:35am

We've been together for a year now...


Email each other?

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 10:54am

I am a lucky woman...my answers are:

Email each other? > Well, this is our newest method of communication...one which I really like. I hear from him at least once or twice a week...more if we're in the middle of making plans for something.

Text/Call each other? > We text at least once a day (again, it's usually more if we are making plans together) and we often speak once a day as well...especially if we haven't actually seen each other.

See each other? > I usually see him anywhere from once/wk to 3-4 times a week. He often spends the night and ends up staying a couple of days.

Have sex? OMG...this is where we really excel! When we're together we have sex at least 3 times a day...sometimes more. I've told him right from the beginning that this is one area that I will never withhold from him. I think that for us, we are sexual soul mates...does that make sense? It is beyond good, and I love telling him how amazing he is. It's kind of funny because just the other day he asked me how many times I thought we've made love. Without having an exact number, I told him that it had to be hundreds upon hundreds upon hundreds. I was able to discern from some conversations that we had last weekend, that my level of enjoyment with him makes him EXTREMELY happy....for some reason I don't think he knew just how wonderful I think he really is, and not just in the bedroom! Hmmm, have I mentioned just how lucky I am?

Has this been the pattern since Day 1? > Yes, we have been like this since day one. We used to be joined at the hip, but then I started becoming way too clingy so he backed off a bit. However we always end up spending lots of time together because it's just plain fun. He makes me laugh a lot, and he's also a fantaastic snuggler so we spend a lot of time just snuggling. Amazing.

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Registered: 06-08-2010
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 11:38am

Email/IM each other: Not very often. If he ever sends an email, it is extremely vague (like an item on eBay or craigslist I may be interested in) because my H knows my email password and could check mail.

Text: usually once a day, except when I am on vacation (like now) and I am REALLY missing him!! Sad to say, most texts are "me" initiated, which, I am trying to change ASAP!

See each other: when I am home, we see each other 4-5 times a week. Most of these times it is only for an hour or so, but is amazing what
we can get done in that time! :)

Have sex: pretty much every time we are
together. He moved to a different apt not very
far from his other one, and now he won't have a roommate so I can come visit more often! The sex is
amazing...he is also a great snuggler and when my whole
family went out of town for a few days, i spent those nights with him. It is
great waking up next to him! :)

Been this way since Day 1: no, we started with an EA, and started the PA last summer. We ended everything in Sept. and got back together in Feb. Things have escalated since then - but he has had those "feeling guilty" moments and almost called it off again in May. I'm trying very hard to lay low and not
be clingy at all.

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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 12:59pm

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Wed, 06-30-2010 - 3:16pm

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-21-2010
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 5:02pm

Email each other? AP #1 - rarely AP # 2 he sends alot. I reply, but rarely send him one - prefer texting.


Text/Call each other? AP #1 text every day...M-F several...weekends...not so much. Talk once, twice, maybe 3 times a week. AP #2 - Text daily - just

LouLou

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