How Often Do You Get To See Him?

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Registered: 05-06-2003
How Often Do You Get To See Him?
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Fri, 09-12-2003 - 7:53am
How often do you get to see your MM? And for how long?

I'm bummed today. I've been seeing mine almost weekly sometimes for 1-2 hours. Last week I saw him three times. This weekend he says he's got too much going on.

Was I spoiled or what? I'm going to miss not seeing him.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2003
Fri, 09-12-2003 - 9:07pm
I see my MM at least 4 times a week for about 15 minutes a day. And it's even great that we live on the same road as each other, 5 minutes apart.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 09-12-2003 - 9:33pm
l haven't seen my mm since jan of this year been 9 months not talking or seeing him.miss him so horribly right now nothing will ever change way l feel about him sure only one here my mm in my heart forever,but guess in way luckly one l gotten have my mm for christmas and thanksgiving and news years.also gone crusies with and to cancun mexico he todl love me again and love way l turn out.my mm know since 16 now 40 so watch grown up.but would give anything know to see him and love him again girls just sad l need him so much l know all understand way l feel about him.kimmy
kimmy
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2003
Sat, 09-13-2003 - 12:00pm
Usually once or twice a month but for about three hours. Not often enough but we try to make the time we spend together quality time. :-(
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-04-2003
Sat, 09-13-2003 - 10:40pm
I'm one of the lucky ones. I see mm everyday. I see him at work and everday after work. On days when we don't work together we see each other after. But he makes sure he sees me everyday.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-27-2003
Sat, 09-13-2003 - 11:15pm
Once or twice a month for a few hours if I am lucky. Not easy, but probably for the best.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2003
Sat, 09-13-2003 - 11:47pm
Kimmy, Kimmy, Kimmy...GAGG--Get A Grip Girl--Really...I have been following your story for what seems like years!! He hasn't found any time in the last 9 mos to contact you. When you "have" him at holidays, it is with family and his wife present. And he told you he loved you in Cancun like ten years ago or something. I'm sorry, but you need some help. I hope you find it...I hate to see someone waste their life on a fantasy!!

ITALYMAMA
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Mon, 09-15-2003 - 2:47am
Based on what I've read here I'm one of the fortunate ones. I see my sweetie at least once a week for 6 - 12 hours at a time. Sometimes he can steal away twice a week for the same length of time. That's still not enough for me, but he's working on making some changes...

KG

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Registered: 06-17-2003
Mon, 09-15-2003 - 10:10am
I also work with mine. We see each other at work five days a week. On our breaks we usually sit in one of our cars and talk. We even have a private spot picked out that we can go to when we want to fool around. We have the same days off, and sometimes we tell our spouses we have to work an extra day. So, then we are able to go to a hotel and spend the night together.

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