How often do you see your AP? How often is enough?

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Registered: 03-04-2004
How often do you see your AP? How often is enough?
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Mon, 10-18-2010 - 8:22pm

I hate that I have to wait for him to contact me again. We only see each other once a month or so...although it's been once every 3 weeks now but I am always the one waiting for him to send me an email. I check our private email account constantly....just waiting for him to want to see me. I guess this is not a "relationship" if I don't talk to or see him but once a month right?

How often does everyone else see their AP? When we do see each other it feels like a relationship but otherwise its just me checking my email.

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Registered: 10-09-2010

Hiya Pink,

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Registered: 03-04-2004

Thanks Tangled...I am actually

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Registered: 10-09-2010

For the most part, all of us here have committed adultery !!!

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Registered: 05-31-2010

We see each other at work 2x a week.

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Registered: 03-04-2004

For some reason I don't care that I'm having an affair. I feel like H has not given me what I need for a long time....and I've asked him for more sex, more honesty etc. Hasn't happened. More lies...less sex. I guess I am a bit angry at H. I guess I do still love him. I'm not IN love anymore. I am falling IN love with AP.

So what bothers me more the affair or the obsession? The obsession...but it's a bother I don't mind right now. It's like good pain....I can't wait to see him! I hope it's not just wishful thinking on my part but I think he's feeling more intense lately too. He looks at me differently...and wants to see me more. Life is short...I am passionate. I can't wait around for someone who's supposed to love me on paper to finally feel like he can or will. I deserve love & passion.

So the thing that is bothering me now is that I threw up after driking a bit too much...so I hope that didn't turn him off. Although when I woke up (he had to get back home) he had folded my clothes neatly...he had thrown out the yuck in the wastebasket...he had put my shoes neatly near my clothes. It was kind of sweet....LOL

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Registered: 09-07-2009

we are together two years and live in different states about and hour and a half away.

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Registered: 05-03-2010

We talk everyday with the exception of weekends, since we're both home with our families.

As far as seeing each other, prior to d-day it was only once every 3-4 weeks.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-30-2010

I see AP every day M-F very rarely on a Saturday. We work for the same company but as far as being together physically & privately I would say about once a month. Its very hard for me as my time is accounted for but you know the old saying "when theres a will, theres always a way". Sometimes I wish I can be with him more but then again maybe its a good thing I'am not. It would only make parting all the more worse.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 06-01-2010

We try to see each other about every 2 weeks.

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Registered: 05-19-2010

AP and I see each other all the time ! sigh.

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