How often do you see your MM
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How often do you see your MM
| Mon, 02-09-2004 - 4:16pm |
just want to know from everyone how often do you get together sexually? do any of you go for lunch with your MM or just talk on the phone? and how often?

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I consider myself very luck to have so much time with my sweetie!
I am very lucky I get as much time with MM as I do...and I cherish each and every minute I am with him!
But to put it in perspective, we've only just started sleeping together. For the previous eight months, we explored other aspects of each other and were having such a great time, ;-), that we held off until recently with the big event.
That's a question I'd like to have answered, since we're being so honest, lol. How many of you have had intercourse, and how many of you, like me and SO, have only "made out"? What do you think about that? For the first couple of months, it was frustrating because this started out being only about the sex and the only thing keeping us from sleeping together was one misfortune after another that caused us to reschedule. Then, once I was sure I was leaving H, and we realized we were in love, SO felt strongly that we shouldn't have sex, because that would be a major problem for me if the divorce turned nasty and I had to go to court. He wanted me to be able to say, honestly, that I'd not slept with him. (Can you say Bill and Monica??? lol) Now that the D is in the works and he sees that H probably isn't going to cause any problems for me, he's relaxed on that a little. We still don't 'do it' very much, mainly because we get so satisfied with other activities. But IC is nice, too. :-D
Lucky
We live in different cites so it isn't like we can meet for lunch . We can only meet if he goes somewhere on business . It's been 4 months I have seen him 4 times , but he never seems to let me know when the next time will be .
First two months he used to call almost everyday , also small cute emails ....then since the holidays came around he stopped calling and emailing .Thought maybe the holidays made him want to be a better H , or maybe his W decided to be a better W .
I email him , is everything ok ?? he emails me back to say he is sorry he hasn't called and that he will .............but he doesn't . Then he calls when he is ready to meet .
I am kinda getting fed up with this . It doesn't feel good to feel like a booty call and I emailed him about what I expect from this A . not just sex also a friend and if he can't be that to me maybe best we should end this . So of course then he emails me a nice short letter like showing me , ok I am thinking of you and you are also a friend .....but then of course again days go by and I haven't heard from him .
Ok I understand over the weekend no contact , but today on Monday is it hard to call for 5 minutes or send a small email. I will wait and see when he contacts me again , but the more days that go by, the more I get pissed . Some A this is ;-(
xoxo ViperDiva
but is it so damn hard to call for 5 min, i dunno. I certainly dont think so, but it must be a woman thing, cause he will go for days without any contact and not seem to NEED it like i do. thats just men..
i am one of the lucky ones, we live literally 2 minutes away and we also work 2 minutes away from each other. In an emergency, he's the one i call. if one of us needs something the other can be there in 2 minutes.
jen
xoxo ViperDiva
We also had harsh words exchanged , he said he didn't like the tone of my voice when I was upset with him about making me feel like he is doing me a favor he even tries to meet me . Well he called , saying how tired he is , still has another meeting to go to , had a long day , has to get up early . blah blah blah ........so what do you want ? I take a night off from work so we can meet now you make it sound like a chore so I was mad .....
He was suppose to call after his meetings , he didn't. then called next day to meet , although I went I was a bit mad at him but of course as soon as he kissed me , all that went away and he had great sex and a nice evening .
I don't want to have to fight with him . He probably gets enough of that from his W . I don't want to have to nag him , why didn't you call or email me .
But why would he know in the beginning to call all the time , and now he doesn't .
And when he does call does he think saying sorry I haven't called makes things better ??
Next time he calls and asks me if I miss him , I'll say - well it is hard to miss someone who doesn't call and you don't really get to see LOL LOL
Yes this is very frustrating , at least I now see I am not the only one .
Hope you have a great time in 3 and a half weeks ;-)
xoxo ViperDiva
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