How often do you think of your AP?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2007
How often do you think of your AP?
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Mon, 04-20-2009 - 7:27pm
I tend to think about him when i am tired or bored, and when i wake up. Altho sometimes at work it will make my day go by faster to daydream.
Does anyone think about their ap when they are at home with their family? My husband has caught me daydreaming, making faces, and has asked me what i'm thinking about. I don't' even realize I'm making a face when i am thinking of him either.
Some days he consumes my thoughts, and other days, he has no precedence. I also think about him a lot more after I've seen him. Probably cuz the feeling of elation hasn't left me yet.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2009
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 7:53pm
All the flippin time! I can't help it..... especially after we have spent time together.. the next day I have such a sense of calm and peace.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 9:13pm
I think about my MM more when I am at home and want to cuddle with him.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2006
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 9:52am
Daily. And he is now xAP. A song, a food, a drink, anything we have done together and his memory slips to the front of my mind.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2009
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 10:45am

Hello !

I am new to this board and this is my first post.I think about my other man all the time!!! I am married and my other man is also married.he is older than me by 12 years but he is so sexy and all.My home life is not bad and the other man is just a cherry on top! He is unhappy at home and I lend him an ear to vent.the other man comes for official meetings and thats how we met.
My bedroom life at home was fine till the other man came into picture.No, we havent gone that far as yet,just kissed but even before that,i began to fantasize about the other man when my husband came on to me.so that should say that i am thinking about the other man while in bed with my husband.
The other man is in my thoughts even when my husband and kids go out for parties or any getaway.Its getting tough now.I want to go all the way with him and my other man also wants it bad.its just that we havent got the right opportunity as yet.We have been seeing each other for 6 months now and so there is a lot of build up;)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2009
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 11:10am
All day every day, about as much as I breath.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2009
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 1:11pm
of course I have felt obsessed, it's part of the addiction. I always joke that he is my crack and I can't wait for my fix, always thinking about the next fix, how to score the next fix etc. Even after getting my fix, I am thinking about the next time. I had to learn not to let it control my life.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2009
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 3:11pm

I think about my MM all the time, especially while in the car driving to/from work and when I am laying in bed at night.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 9:33pm
i think of APs every day.
~k
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 9:54pm
ALL THE TIME....he makes me smile.