how quick could u drop your life 4 MM

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Registered: 05-21-2003
how quick could u drop your life 4 MM
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Wed, 11-19-2003 - 3:08pm
Hi,

How about this question,

Lets say today MM said I'm free of all my other commitments. Lets start our life together.

How long would it take you to free yourself of your commitments?? Or would you??? I know it is a big question for all of us MW with families.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 3:17pm
hey chicky, i'm not married but in a long-term relationship so i'll reply here.

i've never really considered how long it would take me to free myself from commitments, but since i'm not married, just living with BF, in my house, i could be free immediately. but i would not want to leave town because my children are here, grown, but still here. and MM and i would have to leave town because we are well-known to the locals and it would be too tension-filled to start over right here.

whatever. i don't think this scenario would ever happen, so i've really never given it much thought.

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 5:10pm
IN A HEARTBEAT! I have a couple kids and own my own home, the H just lives with me (I shouldn't call him that, hes really only a BF in legal terms, just been around a while) and I could easily drop it all, and keep the kids for MM. (the kids like MM too, so that helps as well!)
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 9:20pm
Hey my MM actually asked me something along these lines- he wanted to know if he won the lottery would I run away with him. Well when he first asked me I said no way, too complicated, etc. But since then I've realized that I want love and happiness and we can work through anything. Finally told him- you know that lottery question? Well you just hit the jackpot! HA! And my son adores him and vice versa. Can't wait to buy that lottery ticket- LOL.
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Fri, 11-21-2003 - 4:23pm
I think it would take a total of about 2 minutes.

Buut realistically I know it will never happen.

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