How tolerable are you?
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How tolerable are you?
| Thu, 10-23-2003 - 10:00am |
I find myself being 100xs more tolerable of the crap that OM dishes out my way than of anyone else on this planet. Sometimes I think Im afraid to upset the apple cart - but why? What is this hold he has over me all about?
Does anyone else walk on eggshells in their EMA?
(Boy Im full of analogies today huh! LOL)
Liberal
a/k/a cl-imshagnhurman
callmeliberal@hotmail.com

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Ok I'll try to bounce off my high horse now and realize I have to accept him for who he is - I dont want to change him, I would like him to see it - but I'm not gonna keep exhausting myself emotionally trying to get him to open his eyes and see things from my perspective...
cl-Liberal
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Good question...I have often wondered if my A continues, just how much will he take me for granted? My H definitely takes me for granted (I'm no peach either, I'll admit) -- but when it gets to that point, well, what's the point? At least in my case; I won't tolerate it, AGAIN!
I think in another post you mentioned how men have trouble multitaksking -- SO TRUE. I once watched a program (Dateline, or one of those shows) where they asked a woman and a man to complete three simple tasks in under a minute. They were to make a number of photocopies, take a phone message, and one other task I can't remember. The women -- no problem. The men were hysterical -- they simply could not do it (they were like headless chickens)!!
Perhaps that's why they need their "caves" more than we do -- they just can't handle it all as well as we can. Just a thought.
damn typos drive me nuts!
Edited 10/24/2003 9:59:09 AM ET by charlotte1203
my A is much like girl's, we are open and honest about everything. much more so than with my SO. i don't work with MM but we communicate on every level and that's so refreshing for me. when MM has tried on a few occasions over the last 3+ years we been together to give me crap because of outside influences, i call him on it and let him know he cannot make me the scapegoat for other problems in his life. and he always gets it and apologizes for trying to dump on me. and tells me i'm the best part of his life.
so i guess i'm saying that if you're honest with your MM, you shouldn't have to put up with his "crap"!!
take care,
gurl
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