How would u react if u got cheated on?

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Registered: 08-04-2009
How would u react if u got cheated on?
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Fri, 08-13-2010 - 1:30pm

Are some of you in A because you don't care about your DW/DH, but can't leave because of sticky situations (children/finance etc.)?


I don't think it would bother me if I found out that DH cheated. My heart is invested in AP.


Do you think it would be easier if you found out that DH/DW was also in A? Would it relieve the guilt? Do you even feel guilt?


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 3:43pm

I have been cheated on, twice.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-10-2009
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 4:53pm
I agree. The very last thing you should want to discover would be that your husband was placing the same value on your relationship with him. the same as you value it.
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Registered: 06-02-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 5:58pm

ok

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 9:08pm
honestly, i think i would be relieved that he is getting some physical attention from some one who is in to him. i love the idea of negotiated infidelity, and as much as marriage should be forever --goodness it is all such hard work sometimes.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 06-08-2010
Sat, 08-14-2010 - 1:38am
I am in an affair because my husband was having an affair with another women.
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Registered: 07-24-2009
Sat, 08-14-2010 - 6:45pm

That's an interesting question.


If H cheats, I hope I don't know about it.


If I did know about it... I think it would depend on the nature of the cheating.

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Registered: 06-25-2010
Tue, 08-17-2010 - 2:00am
HI My ex-husband had an affair on me and I wanted to die. The worst part is that I am now having an affair on my husband. I feel terrible for what I am doing to him, but my brother in law is giving me what I need and want. The way he makes me feel is a feeling I can't explain it is so wonderful. We all live together and my brother in law is getting ready to move out and I am falling apart. I would give up my marriage for my brother in law but then my husband and his brother would hate each other.