How young is TOO Young??
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| Fri, 04-23-2004 - 11:21am |
There are a few problems here though... I am going to be 21 in a week and he is still only 17.... 18 in June. Is he way too young??? Also, we are both in relationships... mine is of 4 years and I have been questioning it for a while now and he of 9 months.
When I lay all the facts down it just looks so wrong but when I am with him none of that seems to matter.
He is so complimenting, fun and everything my boyfriend is not. A co-worker actually asked me how my "boy friend" was. I said hes just my friend and he said no way looks like more then friends to me! This makes me think the attraction between us is so obvious!
I cannot get him out of my mind and all the signs that he is into me are there and its known that we like each other i think.
WHAT DO I DO???

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IS and I have discussed all of these scenarios and we both know that age is an obstacle for us to overcome. But as I stated earlier, she and I are going to work on our relationship and work on growing together rather than apart. She has dated other people and I'm certainly not her owner. I have told her that if she (or I for that matter), were to somehow meet someone better for us, then that is where fate will take us. But I'm not going to "let her go" just for the sake of finding out if she comes back. IS is free to go whenever and wherever she wants. We are together because we choose to be.
As far as the movie Serendipity goes, if you recall, they both almost made huge mistakes because they separated. My impression was they should have grabbed the moment when they met and worked to stay together. Might have saved themselves and others a lot of heartache.
Ultimately, IS and I both know that the one thing we would regret above all else is walking away. We have a real chance to build something solid and lifelong and that is what we intend to do.
obviously AGE is too big of an issue to you all... god damn, "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all" ... underminding my intelligence and telling me that i'm stupid because i'm 18... actually considering my IQ and all the horrible things i've endured throughout my life, i think i know more than anyone i know.
not that i expect ANYONE to understand this, all i was looking for was support, not an attack
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