How's everyone post Easter?

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Registered: 04-02-2004
How's everyone post Easter?
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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 6:27am
Hi Everyone - just checking in and catching up on all the posts since Easter. How has everyone been doing with their NC? Many of us, I suspect (myself included), will have had enforced NC due to the Easter break - MMs/MWs concerned with family stuff etc. I have never been so happy to get back to work! (Sad isn't it?!) :-)

I hope you all managed to get through it okay and found a way to do something good for yourself.

Dusty - aren't you supposed to be having lunch with your MM this week? What day? I do hope that is still going ahead - let us know how it goes. I have lunch with my MM due this Friday. Feel like I am just counting the minutes - each one feels like a whole day.

Oh and Juliet - reading through all the posts since last week, I now understand what switch & bait refers to!! I see what you mean! :-)

Hope you are all doing good.

xx

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 11:07am
Hi there Neurotica and thanks for thinking of me!! My Easter weekend was so busy doing work on the house that I barely even had time to think about MM at all. Lately, I find I can go a long time without thinking about him.

I haven't talked to him since returning to work today but hopefully we'll be getting together later on this week. If he can make it over. Anyways, have a great day!!

Dusty
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Registered: 02-16-2004
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 11:15am
My Easter weekend was uneventful. STBxH had the children, my MM was out of town. I basically just busied myself with reading, sleeping in (which is a luxury when there are children usually around), and getting a much deserved manicure! Oh, and I ate out every day! Yeay!
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Registered: 03-23-2004
Wed, 04-14-2004 - 2:43pm
My post Easter has turned out to be wonderful. Was very down on Easter but then my MM surprised me with an overnight last night. A wonderful 12 hours together. Dinner and much needed affection time. Felt like a regular couple. Missing him today since he went to Fla but he'll return tomorrow. We'll fit in time before weekend since no possibility of seeing each other this weekend for even a few moments. But he will call each day and whenever possible.
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Wed, 04-14-2004 - 3:02pm


Wow overnight! What is THAT like?! We would do almost anything to have that. The kids had off Fri and Monday so it was a Loooooong weekend! Then when I called he didnt'return my call I got antsy. He finally called me this afternoon citing the holiday as putting business on back order so he has been up to his eyeballs in work. Oh well he said he wants to see me tomorrow, I hope it works out!

deedee

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Registered: 03-23-2004
Wed, 04-14-2004 - 7:07pm
We're lucky in that my son is 13 and he has married kids. Also, he is officially "retired" at only 57 but has a very full schedule serving on various company boards, etc so he has some flexibilty to be away from home occasionally. Actually travels quite a bit for business but it would be difficult for me to go with him since that would put us out in the open too much. Planning another overnight or 2 the 1st week in May. It's my birthday and I would love to wake up with him on that morning. also we are both attending the same convention so we can be together one of those nights also. He is wonderful that he is always thinking of ways for us to spend as much time together as possible. Though that doesn't stop my from riding the rollercoaster since my moods are so tied to how often we talk and see each other (speak every day usually 3-4 times and see each other very often. Been together 1 1/2 yrs and are very bonded to one another. He is in 35 yr marriage and my "head" tells me the odds are against us being together though he has not said he is not leaving but also has not said he is staying. But my "heart" tells me I can't ever end this since I completely believe we are so right for each other. We say "I Love You's" every time we speak though the pain of not being together is so hard the happiness, tenderness, passion and love we share far outweights this pain. That is my rollercoaster. Sorry for going on and on but this message board has become the way I vent. Need to do that very badly.