Hubby Vs. MM
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Hubby Vs. MM
| Wed, 02-11-2004 - 3:33pm |
I have a fairly non-existent sex life with my H....he's more like a brother or a room-mate (in my eyes). MM is sexy, attentive, sensitive, giving, caring, support, etc. Everything that H is not. Do most of you find you are seeking what you are missing in your married life or is it just fun, games and sex? If my H could get back the qualities I married him for (and that MM has) I probably wouldn't be in this A. What about you?

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My MM has turned into my best friend & best lover. I can't imagine that my sex drive for him would diminish but over time I guess strange things happen. Have you ever heard the saying "Somewhere, there is a ALWAYS a woman tired of HIS #W($*@. I guess everyone has issues and most of us are in that phase where "everything's wonderful". I'm wondering if there is anyone out that who finally got together with their MM full-time and then got tired of him too? It makes me wonder if eventually I'll get tired of everyone....even the most wonderful of men? I know! Lot of wondering for so early in the day!
But with MM, even though we see each other a few times a month for sex, it is still very exciting and seems new/fresh each time. We enjoy pleasing each other.
I don't think this would change, even if we lived together I think it would still be very exciting. Because of the chemistry between us. I never had this chemistry with H even to begin with.
The thing is, if I could have sex with H even the same amount of time each month as I do with MM, I think it would not be that exciting.
But to still be excited after a few years with the MM, I think says something about if you are physically attracted/have that just right chemistry between you, I think things could be very spicy for a very long time!! Sigh, wish I could have that!!
Dusty
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