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Hurt over A
| Wed, 01-21-2004 - 3:04pm |
Hi, I'm new here but in desperate need of some advice from others who have gone through this. My A started three months ago,with a SM . The first few weeks were the most increidible of my life, I never felt guilty for being with him. After a while he started to get jealous of H . I told him I couldn't leave my M because I didn't want to hurt H. We began to argue a lot because we couldn't see each other as much as we wanted. So we tried to end A a couple of times but I couldn't let go. Now I know that I'm in love with SM, and don't know whether to end M or not.
I have a toddler and my husband works for my very nosy family. I feel like I would destroy his life if I told him I wanted us to separate. Yet I really don't want to put any effort into my M.Is this evil?? I just feel like I stopped caring for H in that way a long time ago(well when OM entered my life). If my M does end I would be alone for a while. OM knows H and tells me that I shouldn't end M because of him, but I feel that I don't need to be married just to have someone, I love H very much, but my heart belongs to OM.
Sorry this is so long, please give me some advice.
I have a toddler and my husband works for my very nosy family. I feel like I would destroy his life if I told him I wanted us to separate. Yet I really don't want to put any effort into my M.Is this evil?? I just feel like I stopped caring for H in that way a long time ago(well when OM entered my life). If my M does end I would be alone for a while. OM knows H and tells me that I shouldn't end M because of him, but I feel that I don't need to be married just to have someone, I love H very much, but my heart belongs to OM.
Sorry this is so long, please give me some advice.

I understand the emotions are running high right now, my advise would be to tell OM you need some time to deal with your H and your M.
JMO
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hey crazynlove -- i posted to you on another thread, but i don't know if you saw it or not.
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hey you, where have you been?!
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