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Registered: 03-01-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:43am

AP told me he hurt his back....I just hate that I can't see him or comfort him. I don't even know if he gets taken care of...does his W take care of him enough? He is so tough on the outside...I wish I could hold him. The other day I got teary eyed when I thought of him with his son. Now I'm sad that I can't hold him when he's hurt.

It's official...if I wasn't fully in love with this man before...I know I am now.

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Registered: 06-07-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 11:22am
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Registered: 09-12-2005
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:03pm
I really understand you. For me, the hardest thing about loving someone you can not be with is not being able to take care of him , especially when he needs it. That's actually the reason why I didn't want to admit that I was in love with my AP.

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Registered: 04-15-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 1:00pm

Oh dear ! I remember when my AP told me that he cares for me blah blah blah everything, but love me. One day I was very hurt with all the nonsense going on at work ( a colleague messed up my project then blamed me ! ) upto the verge of tears. My AP called me in his cabin and was sweet and provided the comfort that I needed the most. He told me that he cant see me crying and then blurted out 'I love you ' ! I never expected it but knew it all the time .Just to hear those words made me fall in love with him all over again!

Its in time of time that the real feelings come to surface.

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Registered: 12-03-2007
Sat, 03-17-2012 - 3:20pm

He's a grown man for goodness sakes!!

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Registered: 04-27-2009
Sat, 03-17-2012 - 8:37pm
WOW! Lurkster, don't you think adults (male and female) deserve a bit of TLC when they are in pain or ill? It's a callous soul who considers the giving of TLC as babying.