hurting - need some advice and support
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hurting - need some advice and support
| Tue, 08-24-2010 - 9:01am |
i feel like my heart is breaking!
quick recap...
| Tue, 08-24-2010 - 9:01am |
i feel like my heart is breaking!
quick recap...
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I am not saying this to be mean but I don't think you ever had him.
Hi Nahs,
When people are stressed they tend to act differently. Some want someone to vent to and others just want to be left alone. Give him his space, fall back and wait until he contacts you. You don't want him to feel like your smothering him. Until then as much as you love and want to support him keep busy and do things that you enjoy doing so to occupy your time and mind. I know easier said then done but right now is all you can do.
Wishing you all the best!
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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He will be back, they always come back... It is very rare when they don't. He is just private and doesn't want to seem vulnerable. You caught him in a bad, sad mood. Definately leave him alone for now, last thing you want to do is be clingy. That backfired on me once big time. My MM was stressed with work, unhappy marriage and feelings for me and he forced NC for 3 months but then came back. But when he was explaining to me that he needed time I would not let it go...
nahs77, I am sorry you are going through this but I agree in part with 'alesan'.When we are in a tough place,we do need to lean on a loved one and if he/she is not there for us,the entire thing seems shallow.OTOH,everyone is different.Some need support while some shut down.
Dont take it personally.You have done your support and now leave it to him.He will come in his own time.
(( hugs ))
reading your post made me feel a lot better.
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