Husband just called....
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Husband just called....
| Tue, 09-02-2003 - 1:17pm |
I had told him last night how unhappy I was. He didn't say anything. No "I love you", no begging me to stay. I knew all along that he wasn't in love with me either. Our son is the only thing that keeps us together. He just called at work and said he would never hold any decision that I make against me. How would you take that? I'm SO upset. The whole time I was SO worried that he would beg me to stay and that I wouldn't have the heart to hurt him. Maybe he's just as lonely as I am. Thanks. Your posts have helped SO much.

It sounds to me like your h is agreeing to a divorce. Or at least trying to tell you that he won't fight you if you want one. From one person in an unhappy marriage to another, I say take the opportunity and file.
Kids are pretty perceptive. Chances are your son knows the two of you are so unhappy. If you and your H can do this amicably, your son will probably be better off in the long wrong if you split then if you stay together.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do!