Husband won't back off
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Husband won't back off
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 12:49pm |
First alittle background. I have been with H for 15 years, married 9. He has always been a suspicious person, but now it is the worst I have ever seen. Every day he questions me about who i doing, who I'm kissing, who I'm talking too. And he words it different to try and screw me up. He throws divorce in my face constantly, which at this point I don't care. This goes on everyday, every night, always!!! He always tells me to leave but i won't give him the satifaction, he won't leave b/c he thinks he has all the rights to our house, little does he know I have talked to a lawyer. He tells me he has a feeling that there is someone else, and he can tell by the things i do, or say. That i've lost interest in sex (true), and that he can tell someone else has been with me, b/c i "feel" different. Is that the dumbest thing ever? But after all of this, then he actually wants me to have sex with him!!! And he wonders why i dont want to. It's like all the stuff he had just said never happened and all is ok. I can't take it anymore. Have any of you experinced this? I really need some help here, im slowly losing my mind!!!! MM has never been one to show or tell me much about how he feels, but lately he has started, which is nice. But the problems with H have nothing to do with him, it started before him, he may be part of the problem now, but my life is set on what happens with us. I would luv him to be a part of my future but im not holding my breath on it, at least not now. We have a great thing going and we dont want it to end yet. I hope someone can help me. Thanks for listening!!
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uni, your H is emotionally abusing you, honey.
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And, I'm still seeing my MM this weekend.....I'm so excited! (BTW, I got my waxes and manicures....I am ready to go! Ha Ha!)
I didn't think they were making those kind of men any more. And that works, even a little once in a while? Hmm. As a MM apparently I'm letting the W off too easy. lol
As for the original post... sounds like your H really just wants to threaten and worry you about support, living arrangements, etc. As for the relentless questions, I hear you; I get that too, despite the complete lack of evidence to support her guesses. The only thing she can base it on really is that I no longer beg for sex...