I am clueless

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-29-2003
I am clueless
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Thu, 09-18-2003 - 11:01pm
hello everybody, i just wanted to post a short question for yall b/c i am confused and i need alot of suggestions or advice, so here it is. Me and my MM spent time together yesterday and i felt it was time for the "talk" so i just threw it out there. Anyways when i asked him how he felt about me, he paused and said "he hates it when i put him on the spot like that", i could understand the meaning of the term he used if we were around alot of people, but it was just me and my MM alone together,so what was he trying to tell me? and what did he mean by that? i need some advice b/c i dont know what to make of this. thanks
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Fri, 09-19-2003 - 12:40am
Hi georgiapeach,

Just a thought... but while you may have simply been asking how he felt about you... MM may have felt that you were asking so much more. He may think the whole things applies to do you love me? do you want me? are we going to have a life together? and if that was the case... then he will probably feel put 'on the spot'

He just maybe scared and unsure of what you have and what it is he really wants... and he may be worried that what he wants is different from what you want.

EMA's are very confusing and even if we do communicate... wires can get crossed very easily... so even though it sounds straight forward to you... just make sure he understands exactly what it is your asking.

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