I am demanding time together

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Registered: 03-05-2004
I am demanding time together
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Sun, 03-28-2004 - 5:40am
I am not going to wait around for him to come back when he wants! I called his friend and his friend called me back! I said I was looking for MM and he said he had been there but left a couple hours ago. I said I was P%$#&# and would he call him and tell him to call me. And to tell him I was P#$%^& and he kind of chuckled and was a smart a&& and said why don't you call his house? But then said that he would do it. So I figure that whatever happens now I will just have to deal with. I have nothing to lose anyways. I am single and 44 years old and have no one to rely on but myself. So what really do I want to be waiting for? He is losing everything right now and I was the only sure thing he had . But he has got to realize that you don't treat a sure thing like this! If there is no tomorrow with him... SO BE IT!!!
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Registered: 11-19-2003
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 6:43am
Me Tooooooooo....

What's up with your MM?? He is with a friend and he cannot give you a call? Damn men!!! I hate when this happens, he COULD have called but he didn't even think about it. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR...

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Registered: 03-05-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 7:54am
yeppers, He has another thing coming! I am usually all giving and sweet. He has changed so so can I !!! what goes around comes around. What happened to the golden rule?
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Registered: 03-05-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:25am
I'm still waiting.....................
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:30am
Have you heard anything from him???
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:57am
((((XXX))))

You are impatient like me. I was missing MM last night, so I sent him a "discreet" text msg (the first time I ever did that on a weekend) saying "Please call at your earliest convenience" and even changed my voice mail msg to the generic greeting so that if his W intercepted it, she wouldn't know whose # it was!

That was around 10:30 PM. Do you think that !@#$#@$ even bothered to call me back? He could have manufactured a thousand excuses to sneak out of the house for 5 mins and call...walk the dog before bed, take out the garbage, grab something out of the car, etc.

But he didn't.

It's the little things like that which frustrate the hell out of me. So I feel your pain.

Keep your head up, and give him hell when he calls.

RWM

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Registered: 01-02-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 9:01am
Text messages are good for communicating secretly, too. Sometimes I will text OM from bed while H is in the next room. And, it doesn't take a lot of time, either. I hope MM gets back to you soon!

:)

Circe

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Registered: 03-05-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 12:18pm
I am so serious about this guys. No more putting myself last on any list. If I don't respect for myself no one will. I really don't know why after two years he can just change his personality. It definately has me stumped! I ain't taken it though!