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| Thu, 07-22-2010 - 7:45pm |
Hi all... I was on this a few years ago and am back cause I am sad and need advice and to vent... I am
| Thu, 07-22-2010 - 7:45pm |
Hi all... I was on this a few years ago and am back cause I am sad and need advice and to vent... I am
Crap!
Hi Devious...welcome back to MAS! I am pretty new here myself, so I don't know your story from before. WOW...I am not sure what advice to offer, but I am sure other more experienced ladies (and men) will be along to offer advice.
It certainly sounds as though there are intense feelings there. If neither of you are willing to leave your marriages though, can you be happy with not being a priority to each other. The more feelings there are involved...the harder it is. And it sounds as though you had started to get over him...and then he came back again...and you're sucked right back into it.
I don't know...are the highs outweighing the lows? It doesn't sound as though you are happy with much of it right now...the texting is not the way it used to be...
Hopefully you can get more thoughts from others...welcome again...and I look forward to hearing more from you. Hang on...cause it's never a smooth ride!!!
OMG this is my exact story Dee
We have been in 15mths. First 3 were overwhelimingly beautiful. Then he started to cool back off, then he ended it, back on, then off, then on.
Now I am miserable, I will never have what we had those fisrt few months and I spend most my waking hours wondering what happened and how to get it back.
Like you, my Ap is rich, cute, very addictive but I think he'd be aterrible partner. I dont want him long term but I dont want this casual thing- its like standing on quicksand!
I can't believe there is someone else with a story like mine, with the same kind of guy too, this is unreal and I feel so much better from the responses I have received, still very sad but better... But if he panics again and leaves I am DONE... and I am going to tell him that next time I see him in person. I am going to put his hand to my heart and then my head and say you will never get in both of these places again... even though that's not true, there is no way I am going to let him think I care... Unless he professes his undying love to me, there is no way I am doing it first... but I will not take the back of forth crap, no way...
Stronger, I can't believe how alike we are and I would to keep in touch. Thanks so much...
btw, got texts from him last night saying his soccer was rained out and he waited around the field for them to decide to cancel and how mad he was that he could have been doing something more interesting... (meaning me cause I was supposed to go watch but he said his kids would be with him) and then they ended up NOT being with him due to weather forecast... so I said back, wow sucks to be you, I was actually free all night too....