I am so angry & hurt............
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I am so angry & hurt............
| Thu, 10-23-2003 - 12:24pm |
As some of you know, I was to see my OM today in class. (brief history....we're not in an A, just on the verge. His GF found out about me last Thursday but nothing has happened between us). He had sent me an email on Saturday saying that we couldn't be friends or talk anymore, which I assumed he wrote to please his gf. Then he told me on Monday that things were ok and that I didn't have to ignore him in class. On Tuesday, I ran into him briefly but we talked and things seemed ok. So judging from what he told me, I assumed that everything would be "ok" today when we had class together. I got there early, and sat in the same spot that we always sit in together. AS the class began and he still hadn't shown up, I figured he just missing class today for some reason. We have to hand in our lab reports at the beginning of each lecture and I went down to pass mine in and I saw him. We stood 5 inches from each other and he totally ignored me!! He went and sat somewhere else without even as much as a glance at me. What the hell is up with that??? I am so upset. I left class at break time because I couldn't stand the thought of him being so hurtful towards me. I don't know what to think. Why would he do that?? Why, if he really did decide to work things out with his gf, why couldn't he have emailed me earlier and told me that? Instead he makes me look like an idiot by totally ignoring me....it was like a slap in the face. I don't know what to do. I'm venting here to stop me from writing a horrible email to him. (which I'll probably still do anyway). I just don't know why he wouldn't be honest with me and tell me that he really wanted to work things out and that we really shouldn't be friends. I would be ok with that. It's the two different attitudes I'm getting from him. I don't know what to think. Screw it....I'm writing him!!
Thanks for listening!
"Blue"

On another topic.....do you guys think that when you are in a marriage that has gone stale, you should try everything in your power to make it work before calling it quits?
Thanks again
"Blue"
And, Blue, I hope you hear some explanation from your OM regarding his behavior at class. There are so many things we can all assume, but only he knows whats really going on. Considering the two of you were friends, I think you deserve an honest answer and not to be left in limbo.
Hugs,
Annika
Brightest Blessings, Annika