When you say "talk", I assume you met online. That being said, there are a couple of things. First of all, who you think you are talking to, could quite possibly not even be who he really is. It happens ALL the time, so before you go thinking I'm wrong, you'd best find out for sure. You don't want to go meet some stranger somewhere and end up chopped up in some dumpster. Secondly, even if he IS who he says he is, that does NOT mean that the picture he is presenting to you of what his situation at home is like is truly what it is like. He says he's never done this before. Hmm. Well, maybe not. But more than likely, yes he has. He says he's unhappy. Not in love. Blah, blah, blah. Yada, yada, yada. Read through the posts on these and other related boards. My educated guess is that he's feeding you a bunch of B.S. to set the scene for an affair and some nookie with you. He says he doesn't want to sleep with you. Don't count on it. My guess is he's got the condoms already packed away.
It's real easy to fall into some fantasy with someone. You best be real careful. Affairs are not something to take lightly. Strap yourself in real tight, because if you go through with this, I guarantee it's going to be a bumpy ride. You have a lot of hurt feelings, frustrations, disappointments and pain ahead of you. If this is what you want, then go for it. But if what you're hoping for is a normal relationship, falling in love, courting, planning a future, picking out china, you are, more likely than not, in for a real let-down. If I were you, I'd stop, drop and roll my way out of this. If this situation and he were a horse at the racetrack, it would be a long shot, for sure.
But! We did not meet online ( Thank God) and he is actually a friend of a friend that has been helping me with ( brace your self) car and home insurance, So he is pretty much my Agent ( oh Lord sounds so strange) also I do business with him referring new residents to him ( I am in the apartment business) for renters insurance. I get commission for every person I refer and the friend I met him through have been friends with him
When you say "talk", I assume you met online. That being said, there are a couple of things. First of all, who you think you are talking to, could quite possibly not even be who he really is. It happens ALL the time, so before you go thinking I'm wrong, you'd best find out for sure. You don't want to go meet some stranger somewhere and end up chopped up in some dumpster. Secondly, even if he IS who he says he is, that does NOT mean that the picture he is presenting to you of what his situation at home is like is truly what it is like. He says he's never done this before. Hmm. Well, maybe not. But more than likely, yes he has. He says he's unhappy. Not in love. Blah, blah, blah. Yada, yada, yada. Read through the posts on these and other related boards. My educated guess is that he's feeding you a bunch of B.S. to set the scene for an affair and some nookie with you. He says he doesn't want to sleep with you. Don't count on it. My guess is he's got the condoms already packed away.
It's real easy to fall into some fantasy with someone. You best be real careful. Affairs are not something to take lightly. Strap yourself in real tight, because if you go through with this, I guarantee it's going to be a bumpy ride. You have a lot of hurt feelings, frustrations, disappointments and pain ahead of you. If this is what you want, then go for it. But if what you're hoping for is a normal relationship, falling in love, courting, planning a future, picking out china, you are, more likely than not, in for a real let-down. If I were you, I'd stop, drop and roll my way out of this. If this situation and he were a horse at the racetrack, it would be a long shot, for sure.
I do agree with you!
But! We did not meet online ( Thank God) and he is actually a friend of a friend that has been helping me with ( brace your self) car and home insurance, So he is pretty much my Agent ( oh Lord sounds so strange) also I do business with him referring new residents to him ( I am in the apartment business) for renters insurance. I get commission for every person I refer and the friend I met him through have been friends with him