You did great! I knew you would. I think he's trying to turn it around so it's Your Fault, so he won't have to feel bad about being such a S#% the other night. You know what to do...
(((((HUGS)))) You are getting better already! I'm going to try and email you again.
Vivacious - My jaw dropped reading this thread because the same thing happened to me recently. AP and I were at a conference together and staying in the same hotel. This was the first opportunity we had to spend the night together. We spent the whole day together, went to dinner with a group of colleagues, then headed back to the hotel. We spent 2 hours...napping :)... and then he says (at 11 pm by the way - what is that... when their pen*s turns into a pumpkin??) "i have to go." I asked him to stay with me and he said "we have to have boundaries, we've broken all the others. Besides, what are we going to do? Listen to each other snore... that's hot. I'll stay and hold you a little longer but then I have to go." I was so upset and hurt but I just accepted it and said "goodnight baby" when he left. We had breakfast the next morning, napped after breakfast and then went our separate ways. Talk about feeling used. Something someone said in a post resonated with me. They said that if your AP had told you he wasn't planning on spending the night he knew he wouldn't get any. How true is that? We play mind games with them and they do with us. The games show us where their true feelings reside... usually in that thing dangling between their legs :)
Stay strong - I wish I could have spoken up like you.
Oh, and lisa.deanne, I thought it was funny you said your pet name from AP "babydoll" was stupid... I think I might one up you with this one... "pookie." when AP calls me pookie I have to restrain myself from gagging.
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You did great! I knew you would. I think he's trying to turn it around so it's Your Fault, so he won't have to feel bad about being such a S#% the other night. You know what to do...
(((((HUGS)))) You are getting better already! I'm going to try and email you again.
Edited 7/5/2009 10:47 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
But ahhhh, just think! You can do WHATEVER YOU WANT!!! Whoo-hoo! I'm so jealous. :(
I do believe that he loves you - or at the very least, he's obsessed/infatuated with you.
Edited 7/5/2009 10:48 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
Vivacious - My jaw dropped reading this thread because the same thing happened to me recently. AP and I were at a conference together and staying in the same hotel. This was the first opportunity we had to spend the night together. We spent the whole day together, went to dinner with a group of colleagues, then headed back to the hotel. We spent 2 hours...napping :)... and then he says (at 11 pm by the way - what is that... when their pen*s turns into a pumpkin??) "i have to go." I asked him to stay with me and he said "we have to have boundaries, we've broken all the others. Besides, what are we going to do? Listen to each other snore... that's hot. I'll stay and hold you a little longer but then I have to go." I was so upset and hurt but I just accepted it and said "goodnight baby" when he left. We had breakfast the next morning, napped after breakfast and then went our separate ways. Talk about feeling used. Something someone said in a post resonated with me. They said that if your AP had told you he wasn't planning on spending the night he knew he wouldn't get any. How true is that? We play mind games with them and they do with us. The games show us where their true feelings reside... usually in that thing dangling between their legs :)
Stay strong - I wish I could have spoken up like you.
Oh, and lisa.deanne, I thought it was funny you said your pet name from AP "babydoll" was stupid... I think I might one up you with this one... "pookie." when AP calls me pookie I have to restrain myself from gagging.
Edited 7/5/2009 10:49 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
Edited 7/5/2009 10:49 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
Edited 7/5/2009 10:51 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
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