Don't let him weasel his way back if he's not willing to do the right thing and get himself free and clear to bring you out of the closet. Sometimes these MM's are smooth and thinks if they can show us how sorry they are and are acting contrite that's enough to get us back. Meanwhile nothing changes. They still go home and sleep in their W's bed.
You're confident, smart, and I bet beautiful. Don't let him disrespect you by letting him just offer you the OW role. Also, beware of the dangling carrots they use to keep stringing you along.
maybe he truly does love you but, doesn't know how to handle this himself....because they are men doesn't mean they know what they are doing....just be careful with him...but i say talk to him as well...you love him and are in love with him..otherwise this wouldn't eat you up on the inside....
(((HUGS)))
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
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Edited 7/5/2009 11:08 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
Don't let him weasel his way back if he's not willing to do the right thing and get himself free and clear to bring you out of the closet. Sometimes these MM's are smooth and thinks if they can show us how sorry they are and are acting contrite that's enough to get us back. Meanwhile nothing changes. They still go home and sleep in their W's bed.
You're confident, smart, and I bet beautiful. Don't let him disrespect you by letting him just offer you the OW role. Also, beware of the dangling carrots they use to keep stringing you along.
maybe he truly does love you but, doesn't know how to handle this himself....because they are men doesn't mean they know what they are doing....just be careful with him...but i say talk to him as well...you love him and are in love with him..otherwise this wouldn't eat you up on the inside....
(((HUGS)))
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
I know on some level it probably feels good that he is groveling to you.
Edited 7/5/2009 11:09 pm ET by vivaciousgirl
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