I Am So Twisted!
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I Am So Twisted!
| Sun, 05-09-2010 - 12:33am |
Not that anyone necessarily SHOULD be in an affair, but I'm the last person who should be in one!
| Sun, 05-09-2010 - 12:33am |
Not that anyone necessarily SHOULD be in an affair, but I'm the last person who should be in one!
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OMG I don't know how you could have A's and not get caught, without being good at lying. I'm great at it - lots of practice - key for me is to believe the lie myself and then it's the 'truth' lol
-jana
But don't fool yourself into thinking you're being somewhat honest LOL. Your H thinks the whole pool boy thing is a joke, so it isn't being honest, although there is a saying I heard many many years ago which I've often thought of:
Many a truth is said in jest.
You don't know how many times I've thought of that saying when someone is joking about something with me - and how often I've found out later that it was the truth they were "jesting" about!
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Wow Lexi!!
Oh, don't worry; I don't think I'm being "somewhat honest"--this is just easier for me so I don't have to come up with and keep track of the lies.
My Mom already busted me out a couple of weeks ago.
anotherseyes
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
That's one of the other "burdens" of having an A....in addition to the lies and the deceit (whether by omission or not), its the not telling anyone else about it.
She's not happy about it, and she told me she doesn't condone it.
anotherseyes
I often wonder if my Mom knows? She has to know, I have thrown enough hints for her and she always busts me in a lie. Its almost like its the big scarlet elephant in the room.lol
Though I don't know if I could come completely clean to my Mom. She never flat out asked so I never flat out told. But the other week I had called her about something and we were talking about H, and she said something like, I know if you had it your way H would not be around. And I said if I had it my way I would have a BF and he could visit me but not live with me and he would have money....Oh and that money would not be his wife's....She just laughs. Truth in jest.
But all in all I think with any Mom she would not like my actions..but I think she would understand them...Does that make sense?
I had to laugh at the turn this "mom" theory has taken.
Within 15 minutes of meeting AP and seeing us together (publicly) for the first time, my mother started with the comments.
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