I AM SOOO HAPPY

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Registered: 11-26-2007
I AM SOOO HAPPY
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Thu, 12-04-2008 - 11:08pm

Hello ALL, I just wanted to share how happy I am right now. As i have mentionned before, AP and I just started our relationship, i am so happy with him. We agreed e-mail was not safe and decided to talk to each other on the phone, we call each other after he finishes work on his way home( it made me feel very good that

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Registered: 02-09-2008
In reply to: booo26
Fri, 12-05-2008 - 5:43am

I'm happy that you're happy and on a high right now, but as you are new to an A, that is where you get to start. It will likely stay that way for a few months, but A's are very rough and bumpy rides and you will find yourself taking the dip on the rollercoaster at some time in the future. And believe me, they are low lows. You may or may not have ever been that far down before. Enjoy and cherish the highs while you can, they are the part that make an A worth doing.

I have had some wonderful highs in mine, that have lasted for quite a few weeks, and I have had some terrible lows. NC is the killer and guaranteed to drag you down faster than you could imagine. I'm preparing for a stretch on the lows, firstly because it's almost the holidays and contact is going to be low at best for a couple of weeks, secondly because AP has just had a death in the family today and I don't know if he's going to let me help him through it.

Pisces

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Registered: 11-26-2007
In reply to: booo26
Fri, 12-05-2008 - 8:29am

Dear Pisces :) Thank you for your reply. I knew you ( or some else) gonna say that. I actually knew it before you said it: there are highs and downs. But it is really good to remind yourself ( and others) in either state that it will change.

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Registered: 06-26-2006
In reply to: booo26
Fri, 12-05-2008 - 11:13pm

I'm with you; too early on in my A to have felt a low and just flying high thinking about AP. I just want to feel his hands on me, hear his voice in my ear . . . I can't get enough of him. He's the most compelling man I've ever known. I was the single OW a couple of times prior to meeting my own H and I do know that the lows can be VERY low. But I'm still struggling to see where they're going to come in in this situation. Before, I didn't have anyone or anything else going on in my life so NC from AP was like a nightmare and I spent a lot of time analyzing whether I should call/text/email him. This time, I'm freaking BUSY with two kids 2 and under and an at home business. What's really most important to me in life will always be my kids no matter whether I fall in love with AP or not. It's like a buffer. My kids have already kept me from losing my mind over my unhappiness in my M.


Anyway, I'm glad you're really happy right now. I am too. I will hope that if a low comes, it's not a bad one and it's not a long one. Enjoy yourself ;)

 

 

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Registered: 11-26-2007
In reply to: booo26
Sat, 12-06-2008 - 10:23am

Dear Misbhaving....Thank you for your reply, wow you are so high, girl....lol. I am very very very happy for you. It is great that you found something to keep yourself very occuppied. I have a very demanding job, even though, I am waiting for the time my AP usually calls me every day after he gets of work. I can get very caught in work and get over it somehow, but so far he has called reguarly. I am hopefully far from lows, as you just gave me hope, I will hope they will not be very low. God, I miss him terribly, he called me yesterday and i could not talk because my H was around, and I felt like something was missing. I wish i could see him today.....