It sounds to me like you're really getting your life back, under your own control, and GOOD FOR YOU! Yay you!
There are two things I suggest for you to keep your motivation/determination. One, go over to the "Ending an affair support" board. Keep posting here if it helps you too, but in EAS you'll get lots of support for holding firm to your decision. Here's a link:
The second thing I suggest is that you copy this very post of yours, and put it in "draft" in a secure e-mail that your H doesn't know about. Whenever you get a little weak or start to miss your AP (you KNOW it will happen) GO read this post! Then go to EAS and have them kick your butt. LOL!
Good luck with everything, I think you sound terrific right now and have had a lot of revelations that will help you move forward. :-)
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
It sounds to me like you're really getting your life back, under your own control, and GOOD FOR YOU! Yay you!
There are two things I suggest for you to keep your motivation/determination. One, go over to the "Ending an affair support" board. Keep posting here if it helps you too, but in EAS you'll get lots of support for holding firm to your decision. Here's a link:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlending
The second thing I suggest is that you copy this very post of yours, and put it in "draft" in a secure e-mail that your H doesn't know about. Whenever you get a little weak or start to miss your AP (you KNOW it will happen) GO read this post! Then go to EAS and have them kick your butt. LOL!
Good luck with everything, I think you sound terrific right now and have had a lot of revelations that will help you move forward. :-)
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You've got a lot of choices. I
Thank you!