i called him at home.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
i called him at home.
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Fri, 10-17-2008 - 4:16pm
we where talking on messenger, then i said i can i call you. it seems messenger is so with out feeling. i called him, but blocked my call. we talked on the phone for about 2 and half hours. later tonight he told me to call him again. omg, i heard his little guys, they are so adorable, and he has so much patience with them. he's such a good dad.
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 4:45pm

It's not the talking on the phone. It's the 2 1/2 hours. Kids spending alone time with dad is special "daddy time". Talking on the phone with someone else for the whole time is not special "daddy time". Moms generally have way more time with their kids than dads do.

Maybe it's me - I couldn't imagine talking on the phone to anyone for 2 1/2 hours!

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Registered: 06-08-2007
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 6:41pm
I couldn't amagine talking on the phone like that either. I looked at the time and we did. While he was talking to me, he was talking to his kids.
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 1:16am

I have to agree with you Lexione.


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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 7:24am
don't judge someone until you've been in their shoes. he's missing something in his life as am i. that's what brought us together and the reason why we are where we are. if he or i thought what we are doing was not safe, we wouldn't do it. he loves his children, he does love his wife, he wants his family, he's missing that emotional connection. it has nothing to do with sex, that's something we do not have. we'll talk and laugh for hours. he gets the gentle sweet side of a woman from me, and i get the sensitive caring side of a man from him, whom i am extremely physically attracted to. he doesn't ignore me, gives me sound advice, when i'm depressed he's there,and he'll listen.
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 12:08pm

Yah yah yah...I've heard your same words a thousand times over here and


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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 1:47pm
His children got just as much attention from their dad while talking to me as they would had we not been on the phone.he was talking to them more then me. He's with them 24 7 right now. He's a good loving father. To each their own opinion.
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 2:10pm

Yah, you keep telling yourself that.


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Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 2:28pm

LOL ok you knew I was gonna have to pipe in..................


Take it to All Sides please - ;)

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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 2:29pm
Every one has their own opinions. You don't interact with him, so you don't know him. I do know him.that's all that needs to be said.
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Registered: 04-05-2007
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 2:46pm

How come it is always the thing around here that when someone chimes in with an opinion that goes against the cheer leading for the A that it is seen as unsupportive? FWIW, I agree with Lexione. Shrug. Not really worth going into, but it is something when daddy time falls by the wayside for Affair time.

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