i cannot believe i am here!

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Registered: 01-23-2004
i cannot believe i am here!
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Tue, 01-27-2004 - 6:30pm
ok ladies and gents..this is the last place i thought i would be posting!!! but i really need some advice here. i am married to an absoluely wonderful man and yet i am deeply attracted to one of his coworkers. i mean almost like an obsession! i see a movie..it reminds me of him, i hear a song..it reminds of him. ect ect ect!!! this coworker and i talk on the phone on a daily basis..we talk about everything(except sex) this is so not like him. he is married also but i know he is unhappily married. the problem is...i do not think i am unhappy with my husband and i do not know what i would do without him!!!! i do love him dearly but this OM is driving me mad. i can hnestly say that i would NOT turn down anything from this man. he is much older than i ..i am 28 and he is 50 for petes sake!!! i know nothing would ever come of this but i cannot help it..i almost have no control over it! WHAT IS UP? is this how it started for any of you! i know he is just as attracted to me as i am to him but we keep it at bay. we have never let the chance of us being alone even nudge its ugly head...but i know we are both hoping for it!!! just one kiss from this man would satisfy my need. when we do see eachother he touches me in a way that should be forbidden...it is so sensual! i get chills

Wicked

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Registered: 01-25-2004
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 11:11pm
You need to ask yourself...are you willing to risk everything for a kiss? or a fling with this man? Think about it. Would that one kiss or time together be worth losing what you have with this wonderful husband you say you have? You have to be aware that that is exactly what might happen if you are caught. I'd say think it through long and hard before you take that step.


Mama