I Can't ?

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Registered: 05-06-2003
I Can't ?
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Sat, 09-27-2003 - 8:44pm
Anyone have any ideas on why their MM would say, I'm sorry, my situation is such that I can't get have sex. Yet he'll still spend time with me. This puzzles me. I believe he's in the process of filing for his divorce, but I haven't asked. Could it be guilt? Worried he may get caught now after all this time? Ideas?
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Registered: 06-18-2003
In reply to: nyblonde58
Sun, 09-28-2003 - 10:34am
It means he does not want to have sex with you at this time, for one reason or another. Lack of desire? Lack of ability? Fear of getting caught? Risk/benefit analysis comes out as a no? Why don't you just ask him what is going on in his head? Although, frankly, I don't know why you would bother. He has made it clear that he does not want to have sex with you. There are MANY people I don't want to have sex with that I spend time with. I don't see how that is so hard for you to understand.