I can't beleive I did it

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2009
I can't beleive I did it
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Tue, 06-30-2009 - 10:21pm

I have been married for 18 years. Never been with anyone besides my husband. Until today. I met someone and after a few kisses I was begging him to make love to me. We didn't actually do the physical act but we did do alot of kissing and petting.

The problem is I don't even feel guilty. I want to see him again.

What should I do?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2009
Mon, 07-06-2009 - 5:21pm

Thanks so much for the thread info. I am just so torn. I have plans to meet the OM tomorrow. Just trying to get this all figured out. We have both said that we didn't want to change our situations and that there would be no IC but I am still confused.

What is it about forbidden fruit that drives us to do the craziest things?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Mon, 07-06-2009 - 5:30pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2009
Mon, 07-06-2009 - 6:18pm
I think I will take your advice and stay away tomorrow. Even though I really want to see him badly. Maybe you can advise me on how to start the difficult conversation with H. I did already see OM twice. No IC just kissing and petting.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Mon, 07-06-2009 - 6:39pm

You can send me private email on ivillage and I can tell you what happened with me and my H....our issues were very personal too and I understand condidentiality.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Mon, 07-06-2009 - 6:40pm
OK, so I can spell confidentiality :)

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