I can't do this anymore

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2004
I can't do this anymore
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Sat, 03-27-2004 - 6:32pm
This NC thing is killing me. I either want contact or an ending. No more limbo. I will do whatever it takes to get in touch with him. He is being so selfish. I have done nothing but been there for him. It is time for him to give me alittle respect. I called his friend and got no answer. I have called there before and my MM ended up calling me. It will show up on his friends caller Id. I don't care anymore. He has pushed me to my limit and I think he should suffer with me. My heart is aching so bad that an ending would be welcome. Not knowing anything is worse! Help!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2003
Sat, 03-27-2004 - 6:42pm
Hi xxx, I just want to offer my support and send a hug your way right now. ((((xxx)))) Unfortunately, I don't have any words of wisdom or advice to offer. I can just let you know that you aren't alone. Good luck in reaching him and I hope everything goes well.

Hugs and smiles.

NG

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Registered: 01-03-2004
Sat, 03-27-2004 - 6:43pm


((((((xxx trouble)))))

I know this has to be incredibly difficult for you, especially since you had a relationship before that ended without a goodbye.

When you do speak with him, (and I'm sure that you _will_), you need to let him know, quietly, but honestly, how you feel. Sometimes men get the looniest ideas about what is "honorable and/or right," and they completely miss the real point.

Hang in there and let us know what happens.



Cazrida