I can't tell anyone else except y'all

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Registered: 04-23-2004
I can't tell anyone else except y'all
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 11:52am
so I just have to say that I had the most wonderful conversation with OM on the phone yesterday. Yay! The tough part is that I will see him this Friday for about two minutes while I stop by to pick up his wife for a weekend trip. What a total tease. LOL.

Is there anyone else here who has NO ONE to talk to about this? I mean, NO ONE knows about our relationship except to two of us, and sometimes I feel like I am just going to burst because I need to talk to someone....

The people I normally talk to are not candidates. One is my husband (lol) and the other is one of my best friends (his WIFE!). Another person is my other best friend, who is also best friends with his Wife! Uggggggh. I am so happy I found this board. Ok, enough rambling!!!

I hope everyone is having a great week, and thanks again for the warm welcome.

KC

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Registered: 03-04-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:41pm
HI KC,

I had no one to talk to about this until last week when I finally told my best friend.

It's been about 16 months of secrets, and I actually only found this board about a month ago. Yes, it's really hard to carry this around by yourself, and harder still to find someone you can confide in. I only did it after I had moved out for about a month, and only then did I choose to share because I had sort of gotten to the point where I decided my OW was going to be my future... and I was essentially willing to part ways with my best friend if need be.

But hey... you've got us. And we listen. When we aren't shouting.

rain

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 1:01pm
Thanks! I appreciate your comments!! Sixteen months of secrecy?? Oh man. I've only been going two months and already I feel like I need to talk to someone....lol. KC