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I could use one of those hugs too...
| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 4:55pm |
Tonight was supposed to be wonderful.
| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 4:55pm |
Tonight was supposed to be wonderful.
I don't like getting my hopes up and then BOOM!! I have been there before.. I am sorry your night was ruined..
{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} to you Flirty.... I can understand what you mean hon... been there, done that! you want them to have there own life... but at the same time... you just want them to be with you.
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I really know exactly how you feel. I have heard the same from my MM. The relationship was going great for several months, then suddenly he feels guilt. He feels guilty when we plan those weekend trips out of town together. It is planned cheating. But, when it is spontaneous, he is happy and the sex is great.
He just needs some space and he will come back to you. Give him the space then give him the opportunity for spontaneity.
I hope you're feeling better today. Like someone else said at least he is being honest with you. In my experience, it can be very hard for men to express their feelings especially when they know it might upset us. So that fact that he was so open is a good sign.
It's good that you don't push him if he's not feeling comfortable. MM & I had our 1st planned meeting this week and it didn't go well. It was just too much guilt and fear for MM which he's never had a problem with when things happened spontaneously. I think I pushed him too much after and now we are on NC.
Your MM will come around when he is ready and I'm sure it will be worth the wait.
((HUGS))
luv
I hope today is a better day.
Thanks all.