I dont know how to end it

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Registered: 08-17-2009
I dont know how to end it
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Mon, 08-17-2009 - 9:43pm

Sigh.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-18-2009
Tue, 08-18-2009 - 1:34am

Seek professional help now, before you totally sell your soul to devil for this good for nothing flea bag player.

It's also obvious you don't love your H anymore.... Do the kind thing and stop stringing him along. Get a D and set him free to find someone he doesn't have bad baggage with. Maybe then (with a new love interest) he wouldn't have the functioning problem he had with you.

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Registered: 12-18-2008
Tue, 08-18-2009 - 7:05am

Ever hear of an 'exit A'? I think that's what you're having. Could be the earlier A was an exit A also. Some ppl have A's because they want out of their M. Your H knows at some level you want out which is why he has trouble 'performing.' As for your AP, I see all kinds of red flags and you do too. My rule is one lie to me and I'm out. The A life is risky enough as it is (which of course is part of the thrill).

-jana

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Registered: 08-17-2009
Tue, 08-18-2009 - 12:34pm

I am currently in therapy.

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Registered: 05-14-2009
Tue, 08-18-2009 - 7:49pm

I feel your pain.. I am going through the same thing. I know I must break it off with ap however all the time we break up I feel dead inside.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 12:58am

Lost,


Your AP sounds like mine.