I don't know what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2004
I don't know what to do
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 12:50pm
I have been with my husband for 13 years but I have not been happy for a long time now. I feel I am playing a role in a play. My husband is a great father and person But I do not love him in that way. He is not my soul mate. I have been working with a man who has become a very great friend and confidant over the past year. I do believe he is my soul mate. He knows all about me, my children, my family, even things I have kept to myself for my whole adult life. I feel very comfortable with him. I do not want to hurt my husband but I truly believe this other man is whom I am to be with.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 1:05pm
Hello and welcome to the board. I would suggest you spend a little time reading some past posts from other people on this group and if you choose to move forward prepare yourself for the roller coaster ride of your life.

elf - who is trying to stay behind the yellow lines

haha

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2004
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 1:16pm
Yes, thanks for the info. I have spent a few days reading others topics and responses on the subject. I guess my biggest concern is obviously my children (9,12,13) and one who has a terminal illness. I have spent the last 13 years caring and loving my children. I would never stop doing that but I also feel I cold be happy too. They know this OG and really like him, my husband also knows him and really likes him. What a mess up.