I don't know what is going on!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
I don't know what is going on!!
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Sun, 08-24-2008 - 4:23pm
My AP and I have been discussing going farther in our A.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 4:52pm
(((HUGS))) to you...

Yes to begin with in my A, I did go through this....

Thing is in the beginning its always kinda new to both parties and emotions can be hard to handle at the best of times...

Its dreadful even when everythings going fine you can find yourself trying to analylise everrything - i do this all the time and know I must stop.

As others have said to me on here " you need to learn to relax in your A"

In regards to his texting behaviour - sounds just like it was for me in the beginning - but remember with men - you need to give them plenty of space to get their emotions in check as they do not find it as easy as us to come to terms with them.

My AP has only just taken things to the same level as my feelings for him after almost now 4 years of being together.

A's can last ages or can be over very quickly!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 5:07pm
Thank you so much for your advice you made me feel better. I do freak out easily. I care about him so much and I am really trying to calm down. But like I said the thought of not ever hearing from him again just scares me. I am totally willing to just leave it at text messaging if that is all he wants just to keep him in my life. But would like to go further and just get tired of waiting to see if he wants to do the same.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 5:25pm
Glad it helped you...

The way I knew that mine wanted to take things further was that when he did text...it went from hi hows you - to hi..how are you?