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I ended it
| Tue, 04-13-2004 - 8:32am |
I have been seeing my MM for almost two years and have fallen in love with him. I know he cares about me, but probably not as muuch as I care about him. Anyways last night I called him and told him (for the first time) that I loved him, and because of that I couldn't see him anymore. His response? "Good luck in your ventures". What the F!#* is that supposed to mean? I open my heart to him and thats all I get? I feel alot better having finally told him how I feel. I guess I thought he'd have something more meaningful to say.Anyone else have an experience like this?

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(((HUGS)))
My OM has repeatedly said to me when I've tried to call it quits "I certainly wish you well in your relationship with your H because all I want is for you to be happy and if it is with him that is going to make you that way then please give it all you got."
elf
I've been seeing my MM over 2 years also, I don't know what he would say if I tried to end it. I wouldn't be surprised if he said something similar. I know he wouldn't try and convince me not to, he would probably be happy for me to work on my relationship with H.
Anyways, hope you cheer up. And what will do you from here anyways? What if he DOES get ahold of you again, what will you do? Just a couple of questions for you.
Dusty
Also, it depends were he is emotionally. Has he ever hinted that it is more then just casual. Some men put up a front to not get hurt. I know I act like every thing is fine but then again i am here hurting a lot of the time. He will never try to seem weak in front of u.
Sorry that u r going through this I know it sucks n we r here 4 u.
Giant
B's bunny
Lol, I read your post and it made me smile, :). Because I just about do the same thing. In my 4 years with my MM, I have tested him in that way. Set up a scenario and hope it goes the way I planned. I know it's silly. Anyway,I don't do it anymore. Mayyybe, once in a while. He knows me quite well so I can't get away with it as often, lol.
I agree with everyone here also though. He just became defensive and didn't know what the heck to say.
My MM gets defensive in that way also. There have been a few times when I've told him not to worry about certain situations and he'll get all bent out of shape and push me away, but then calms down after a bit....
Edited 4/24/2004 4:31 pm ET ET by julietsfate
I may be lucky in that way, but my MM has his querks too. He thinks his word is golden. I've written before in saying I think we spoil them a bit too much. I know I have a tendency to do that to his ego at times. Then I wonder why he gets the way he does, :)..
I've learned to pull back though and not feed his ego sooo much anymore, :).....
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