I feel like everyone knows!!
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I feel like everyone knows!!
| Thu, 08-05-2010 - 10:45pm |
So AP and I work at the same place, but not in the same department. we don't see each other very often, we try to be very discreet, but we can't NOT be friends, because then it would be extra obvious if we stopped being friendly- does that make sense?
But since AP is single, a few other ladies in the office have tried to make a move on him and of course get shot down. I feel like everyone knows about us or are going to start to wonder ?? Maybe I'm just paranoid?
Does AP need to start lying and saying he has a girlfriend out there somewhere?
Geez louise, why isn't there some kind of manual for having an A?! there are so many things that crop up that we never thought about when we started this thing... *sigh*

I dont think he needs to lie that he has a gf. Its no ones business if he does or not.
I think you're just being paranoid. :-)
He could let it be known around the office that he doesn't like to date co-workers because of the complications should there be an unfriendly ending. He doesn't have to lie about a gf, he could also let it be known that he dates around and doesn't have one "girlfriend" (that lie could be complicated if there are work functions that most people bring their s/o's to).
Maybe someone could write a manual LOL!
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