I feel like my life is over
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I feel like my life is over
| Sat, 01-10-2009 - 1:23am |
I have been engaged to the man of my dreams for about 2.5 years.
| Sat, 01-10-2009 - 1:23am |
I have been engaged to the man of my dreams for about 2.5 years.
Hi MP and welcome -
Honey there is nothing you can do to 'fix' this - the damage has sadly been done.
Hello mp,
I have absolutely no advice for you on this entirely personal subject.
But I would like to pass along big (((((((HUGS)))))))) and hope that you find peace in your relationships and decisions.
I'm a little unclear about whether you have told your SO yet or not. I thought you said that you haven't, if that true please let me give you some advice, if you have, then you can disregard the following....
Honey, if you haven't told him yet, DON'T! If you're terminating the pregnancy either way, why hurt him like that? It will only serve to cause problem in your R, and maybe ruin it, if you can, spare him the pain.
Regardless as to whether you terminate the pregnancy or not, he will still look at it as you got pregnant by another man while you were w/ him. That takes the cheating to a whole new level. He won't be able to accept the A as a regular A. It takes on a different flavor if you will. Even though you didn't get pregnant on purpose, or do anything any different then the rest of us, he will view the betrayal worse than had you cheated, and not gotten pregnant. I don't know if that makes any sense to you, but that's how I see it.
I wish you the best of luck.