i feel numb...

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Registered: 06-14-2010
i feel numb...
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Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:15am

My AP went away to Chicago last Wednesday and I was thinking woohoo....we would have more time to email because he would be away from his W.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
In reply to: rmab1998
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 12:05pm

Hi Rmab1998,


I'm sorry your feeling hurt & numb. With affairs when its good its GOOD, when its bad, its BAD.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: rmab1998
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 8:23pm

I totally understand - you were expecting one thing (hearing from your AP more often) and it didn't happen - you are disappointed.

But you have a lot more to worry about here. If your H is suspicious, it's only a matter of time before he finds out the truth. There are just too many ways to be caught, if you have a suspicious spouse. It might be a good time to end the A for that reason alone.

REALLY think about how you would handle a d-day. If you can't even imagine, then end the A. I'd be really worried about that. I think if my H started accusing me of cheating, I'd have to end my A right away and hope that it wasn't too late for him to find out anyway...

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Registered: 06-14-2010
In reply to: rmab1998
Fri, 08-20-2010 - 10:59am

Your right, I'm not sure how I would handle a D-Day, I would have alot to lose....family and some friends..not to mention I'm sure my AP.