I got in a fender bender.....
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I got in a fender bender.....
| Tue, 01-27-2009 - 5:17pm |
Last Thursday while on my way to work and taking the girls to school, I got in a fender bender... :( Thank God we

Hiya There,
Wow.. you most certainly have a plate full. I'm sorry to hear about the accident, but am grateful you and your girls got out fine. I hope you and your daughter feel better. As I read on, and saw the part about how your X's new girlfriend is worried about the flame sparking up again. Don't let it phase you, if you can talk to her and let her know that there is nothing there. That you have completely moved on, and your now looking to the future.
Also, I saw that part about your X saying he doesn't like that you have a BF now. Well TOUGH TOOTIES! Lol. He is being a little selfish in the sense he doesn't want another man to love you. Don't let what he thinks get into your head. As long as your happy and your kids are happy, that's all you need in this world. Your X is just scared that you'll find something better with the current relationship then you did with the one before. Not a lot of X's like to see that another man/woman made their X partner happier then they thought they made you. <-- (Kind of confusing sorry) But any who, honey, move on and be with the man that makes you happy (BF) and set aside the doubters and the selfishness. Keep your main focus on your kids, and your future. Let him sweat over you being happier, that lets him know that he couldn't do the job right, and you weren't going to settle for that. Let him know you deserve better, and you know it.
Catch Ya Lata!
& Feel Better!
Let me see if I have this straight. You and xH are divorced and he has a GF, who is threatened by you, yet your H is upset you have a BF? WTF. Tell xH who you see and what you do is absolutely none of his business.
As for the GF being threatened, perhaps that's because your delusional xH is feeding her BS. If you can talk to the GF let her know that you have moved on and have no interest in xH any more except as the father of your children.
Pisces