I got his wife's cell#, possibilities

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2003
I got his wife's cell#, possibilities
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Thu, 01-15-2004 - 3:02pm
Hey, I got my separated man's wife's cell number and the possibilities are just driving me nuts. I could prank call her or I could call and tell her stuff or ask her why she's living with a guy and isn't divorcing her husband.... I hate it when she calls and interrupts our dinners or when we're trying to spend time and the phone rings. Maybe I jealous, I just don't understand why she's not letting go and just divorcing him. I just hate this whole thing dragging on.

What do you think? Anyone every prank called the guy's wife? Or is that too immature...at this point I just hate the whole thing and I'm beyond caring about the consequences since they're separated and she's not getting a divorce and moving on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 3:40pm
Is that too immature? You're joking, right? It's way less then immature - it's almost infantile.

She's not getting a divorce and moving on? Why on earth can't HE instigate a divorce?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 3:45pm
no crank calls please. its really immature of you to think about it. let him deal with her.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 3:48pm
hey ikel, welcome! listen girl, that is way so immature to prank call his W just because she's not moving fast enough for you! AND it's his M, not yours, so talking to his W about her inappropriate behavior falls into his territory to handle. YOU NEED TO ACT LIKE A GROWNUP!! you're not 18, are you.

if MM and W are separated, and have been for the appropriate amount of time for your state, let him file for divorce and finalize the process. why is the ball in W's court??

and i'm sorry, but if you're involved in the end of a M, there will be lots of phone calls, fights, interrupted dinners, etc. in the near future, so you better learn to deal with the drama. if you act out like a child, your man will just end up mad at you!

let him handle the situation. you take care of YOU!!

gurl