I have created a mess

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Registered: 02-21-2005
I have created a mess
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Wed, 01-21-2009 - 3:17pm

So its been a long time since I have been here.. First a little history, I have had 3 As.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2009
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 3:27pm
Sure wish I could answer your questions, but unfortunately I can't. And the only one that can is him. So, you just have to ask him. Be prepared, however, for his answer, because it may not be what you want to hear. Good luck to you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2009
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 3:58pm

Hey sweetie pea,


Funny your name, I call my A that and she loves it. Says makes her feel special. Anyways from a man's point of view he is probably pulling away not to hurt you. But I would ask him. My A and I are very honest and don't left anything unsaid. Thats what the bad marraige is for lol. Hang on to him and enjoy it. You never know what the future holds.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2005
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 4:26pm
Thanks so much for your reply, it is great to hear a man's point of view!! He is coming to spend the night, so I think it is time for a conversation over the subject.
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Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 10:53am

It's also interesting that this is probably how your first AP felt.........it doesn't feel so good, huh?


I'm worried that you would leave your M over him and really you hardly know him.