I have a question??????

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Registered: 10-19-2008
I have a question??????
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 6:17pm

Hello All,


I have not been on this site for quite some time, my A ended over a year ago.

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 6:29pm
Im assuming legally speaking yes it would be an affair but if her and her husband are no longer having sex or sleeping in th same beds, then to me it's not technically an affair.
 
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Registered: 04-06-2010
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 7:35pm
It would be an affair until June.. Then it is what it is.. whatever that might be.

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Registered: 06-09-2003
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 11:52pm
If she's already filed for divorce, then no, I don't think it's an affair of any kind.
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 04-29-2010 - 8:18am

I agree with Niffer! (Happens a lot LOL) For something to be an "EA", it has to be a secret communication that is hidden from spouses that has content that would be RIGHTFULLY upsetting to a spouse. If she is separated and her divorce is final in JUNE (a mere two months away), then she has a right to flirt in communication with someone else.

I would question whether she should jump into a relationship so quickly, but she has the right to do so, and she isn't even dating him yet. She should hold off on that until the divorce is final I'd say, especially since it's so soon. I wish her luck!

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